Finding the right phrend is the first step to building a connection. Start by taking advantage of our advanced filters, sort options, and the Suggest button!
Pro tip: The person who sends the first chat message is the person who will pay for all chats going forward. But whoever initiates a phone or video call will be the one who pays for that individual call regardless of who pays for chats.
You can narrow your search by age group and contact method. And you can filter your results by relationship speed, ethnicity, language, media, and drink rate.
Want to mix it up? Sort profiles by Newest First, Birds of a Feather (similar profiles), Opposites Attract (dissimilar profiles), or Phrendly Formula (a secret-sauce mix). Other than Newest First, all other browse results are weighted by responsiveness, so be sure to respond to each phrend quickly and engage them in meaningful conversations.
Starting a conversation with a stranger can be tricky, but don’t worry—our Suggest button has your back! Click the Suggest button on any profile and it’ll give you a clever icebreaker. You can tweak it or hit the button again for a new suggestion.
Make sure to turn on SMS forwarding so you don’t miss any responses and can keep the conversation flowing. Happy phrending!